Wikipedia describes honour
killing as the homicide of a member of a family by other members, due to the
perpetrators' belief that the victim has brought shame or dishonour upon the
family, or has violated the principles of a community or a religion, usually
for reasons such as refusing to enter an arranged marriage, being in a
relationship that is disapproved by their family, having sex outside marriage,
becoming the victim of rape, dressing in ways which are deemed inappropriate,
or engaging in non-heterosexual relations.
In India, we commonly call it,
'setting an example'. Or 'teaching them a lesson'. A Muslim girl doesn't want
to wear hijab? Kill her. A Hindu wants to eat beef? How dare he! Intercaste
marriage? Kill them so that others don't dare. Dare!? He/She is a human being
before being your daughter, your son, a Hindu or the son of the head of khap
panchayat.
Our country is one of the greatest on this planet, agreed. But there
are some things we can't stand. We can't stand people having an opinion that
does not match with ours. We can't stand the sight of two people loving each
other and not caring about gender, caste or religious beliefs. And this is why
there have been endless debates on every news channel of the country about how
INTOLERANT we are.
According to a report by the United nations, out of the 3500
cases of honour killing that occurred in 2012, 2845 were from south and
south-east Asia. This makes up for about 80% of the total and if this doesn't
alarm you, I don't know what will. 2845. This is not just a statistical number
that you come across everyday. This is the no. Of lives that were ruined just
because they thought they had the rights to do what they want. They thought
they lived in a free country, like you and me. Ridiculous, isn't it?
Just like
with terrorism, there can't be two opinions about honour killing. There are
very few things in this world that are either an absolute right or an absolute
wrong. Honour killing, is one of them. In conclusion, I would like to mention,
that India, as a nation, is full of good things and bad ones, just like any
other country.
But in order to move ahead, progress and achieve all those
dreams our ancestors dreamed of, we need to break free of all these social
stigmas that keep pulling us back like chains and shackles. Until and unless
every single person in this country feels free to practice what he/she believes
in, the dreams shall remain an illusion.

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